9 Months old

9 Month Stats:

Weight: 16 pounds - less than 3% (They want to have us come in for weight checks again because he's below his growth curve- but I think it's just because he doesn't really eat solids.)

Height: 27 1/2 inches- 25-50% (The last appointment was obviously mismeasured because they said he was 28 inches and 90%. I thought that was off- I guess I should have asked for them to remeasure.)

Head: 18 3/4 inches- 95-97% (his big head is holding strong)

Dan went to Portland a few weeks ago for a library conference. This was the first time he's been away from us since Beckett was born and he was going to be gone for almost a week. I thought I might go crazy if I was only around a baby for a week- so I convinced my family to come and visit over the weekend. Dan was like "I expect Beckett to be sleeping through the night when I get back." So the first night Beckett woke up a few times and I just let him cry it out. When he woke up around 5:30 a.m. I decided to feed him. Then the next few nights he didn't wake up until about 5:30 a.m. And that has been pretty much how it's been since- except for a few nights. It's so nice cutting out about 4 awakenings. We just need to get him a little more consistent with taking good naps.
Beckett now can wave and clap his hands. He loves the song "If you're happy and you know it" and he will clap his hands when you sing it.He loves sucking on a spoon- however he still won't touch food that comes in a spoon- just finger foods for Beckett. My family was here a few weeks ago and they all tried to see if they could get him to eat pureed- no one succeeded. I still haven't tried too much finger foods (still the main foods are baby mum mum and the grain puffs) with him because I'm too nervous. This picture was from last night- we tried giving him kiwi- he made sour faces- but he still ate it.

Beckett loves taking baths now- since he can sit and play with toys the whole time.

Spring is finally here! We have pretty flowers blooming in our yard and it's warm enough to take walks now. Yea! But we'll probably still get another snowstorm sometime before summer- we usually do.This past month we've discovered two things Beckett's scared of. Dogs barking at him- and going through the car wash.
Here's Beckett with his friend Reese- she's about 6 months older than him.

Beckett is loving getting into things, pulling things off shelves, and opening and closing doors- he'll soon have to learn what I did about slamming doors on your fingers. Beckett hasn't progressed much with the crawling- he still does the army crawl- just a little quicker now. Here he had crawled under the night stand to get the telephone.He loves walking and is getting better and better. He pretty much can do it by himself. He's just super cautious and prefers get around by holding on to furniture or anything that might support him becuase he's still a little tipsy at times. The video shows him walking across his bedroom by himself.

I like to tease Dan that Beckett's going to take after me and do tumbling and cheerleading. Beckett has great balance, likes being upside down and high up, he loves doing flips, flying through the air and dancing/bouncing. Last week Beckett did a head dive over our couch and landed on our hard wood floors. But of course he still likes to hang over the couch.

However Beckett is a total boy- he already thinks farting is funny. He's super active-doesn't like to sit still. He loves running, kicking a soccer ball around, and is fascinated by mechanical toys.Since it has be warmer here Dan has been able to get out on some bike rides- which makes him happy. Beckett and I usually go along and hang out while he rides.

8 Months

At eight months Beckett is getting better at walking- still he needs a little assistance. We got him a walker that he can actually reach the floor in. Beckett is a happier boy now and so am I. I'm able to get a couple of things accomplished while he's awake now without him fussing. We are now discovering ways we need to baby proof our home. He likes the pull the leaves off our little tree and eat the dirt. Thankfully for now he has a little bit of a barrier in between things with the walker. He races all around the house in that thing- we have wood floors so he can fly. He loves playing hide and seek and chase. He's also learned if you run real fast, then you can pick up your feet and just glide for awhile. He still is pretty much exclusively breastfed, eating every 2 hours or less- because the stinker won't eat baby food. We've started trying giving him finger foods which makes me so nervous because he doesn't know how to swallow- he gags every time even if it's teeny bit of puree. He'll eat anything you give him as long as it's not baby food that needs to be eaten with a spoon. But right now he gets very little food other than milk so we can hardly count that. Last weekend we went out to lunch in Grand Junction and an older couple (strangers) was looking at Beckett "Oh he's so cute- except I might turn you in for child abuse- because it looks like you don't feed him". The main finger foods we've been giving him recently in tiny pieces are baby mum mums, freeze-dried apples, and cheerios. It's great because at restaurants we can now put him in a high chair and give him some little snacks to try to pick up and eat and he's entertained. He feels included like a big boy, so he doesn't get fussy.

We still let him walk around a lot without the walker. He's really good at walking around by grabbing onto furniture. He's starting to stand on his tip toes to grab something he can't quite reach. He likes grabbing onto things like our floor lamp. He likes to shake it back and forth and almost knock it over. He's starting to try to pull drawers open. It won't be long before he's going to be a major disaster. He loves exploring. Anytime I open the dishwasher, fridge or freezer he races over before I close the door so he can grab and see so many new things.

His hair is starting to get kind of long and a little bit of wave to it on the ends- it mostly starts to curl when he has crazy bed head. He grunts and hoots a lot but not really any consonant sounds- he did for like a week at 6 months and hasn't since. We still get comments all the time about how observant he is. He doesn't want to miss a thing. He's getting better about napping and sleeping.

He's finally starting to do some crawling motions. But when he's walking or crawling to try to get something, he gets just a close as he can to be able barely reach it with his fingertips by stretching. He also can go from sitting to his army crawl position if there's something he wants to reach. But it's usually really slow with occasionally splits and head dive. Just ignore in the video when I call the phone a camera. Just trying to confuse Beckett.

This video shows about the best we've got of him laughing. Ignore my head that blocks the view for a second- I was trying to hide the camera from him. He does a laugh sort of thing a lot especially when we're playing hide and seek or chase- but it sounds more like a quack. My dad says Beckett has the weirdest laugh.

Daddy's boy

Dan said I had to do a post about Beckett being a mama's boy- but I wouldn't have anything to post about. So here's some pictures of Beckett and Dan. Beckett is fascinated with Dan's bike. Sometimes Dan will ride his bike in our house and Beckett will chase after him in the walker. Now that it has been warming up here recently- Dan's done a couple bike rides in Grand Junction. Beckett gets so excited watching him and the other bikers.

About 3 weeks ago Beckett got sick for the first time. He was just starting to feel a little better when I took this photo of him helping Dan take off the empty water bottle. I'll admit when Beckett was sick he was a major mama's boy. I also learned that if Beckett is coughing/making choking-like noises you should turn his face away from you, not toward you like I did. I ended up being covered in mucus-barf.

Dan doesn't like this picture but I'm including it anyways becuase I like it.

Dan blowing on Beckett's tummy.

Chewing on toys.

Beckett in Dan's boot- I did some weird effects on the photo.

Weeend in Denver

A couple of weeks ago we went to Denver to visit family. We were able to visit with Dan's family (even though I don't have any pictures of them) and mine. My family had moved there a couple weeks prior. It was fun seeing them and checking out their new house. It was a quick trip, but we had to get back so Dan could go to work Monday. We left Sunday evening and about 6 hours later in Glenwood canyon there was a big rock slide. There were about 20 boulders on the interstate and some as big as semi-trucks. They had to close the interstate east and west bound-so if we had left after the rock slide we would have had to take a 200 mile detour to get home. I've posted a couple pictures of it from the Internet.

7 months

Long post again. -Those of you that know me from my note writing high school days, know that it's hard for me to write without a million details. This is my journal basically- so it's hard for me to be brief.

At seven months Beckett loves walking he even likes to run sometimes. He loves to explore his surroundings- it always gives him the biggest smile. When exploring our house his favorite thing to check out is Dan's bike. I will try to guide him away and he will turn right back to it. The problem is he wants to do walk around all day and can't quite do it by himself. We don't have to help him much- but you get a back ache from being hunched over so long. He wants so bad to be mobile and is not content just sitting or laying. He has mastered sitting by himself. We're trying to give him tummy time so he will learn how to crawl, but he gets fussy if he's stuck in one spot. He's starting to get some crawling motions. He can turn a full circle on his tummy- but not travel anywhere. He's a super climber- he'll pull himself up on anything he can- especially if he sees some interesting object he can grab. He knows to raise his hands up or out when he wants to be picked up or for assistance in balance when moving. He does this butt bounce/leg kick thing when you sit him down- (he's trying to get out of the chair or wherever he's sitting).

Beckett is a daddy's boy. He loves his daddy. His face lights up when Dan gets home from work. He bounces and squawks with excitement when he gets to play with him.

He loves to play with something while he nurses and will eat in any position. With his short attention span he's done eating after a minute and then wants a little more a couple minutes later. We've tried solids again. I'm not sure if he's getting much; it looks like he mostly spits it out. But at least he is letting me put food in his mouth for a few minutes- then he refuses. We figure he is swallowing some food because he has had some real foul funky farts. Because of this, Dan thinks we shouldn't start him on solids until he's potty-trained. (And that may not be for a long time because he probably could sit in a soiled diaper all day and not care).

Beckett doesn't do much babbling- usually only if he's tired. However he is great at making noises with his mouth. His recent favorites are tongue clicks, gurgling, spitting and blowing bubbles. He'll do a caw sound to get daddy's attention. He loves to watch what's going on and my favorite thing that he does now is he'll lean over to see something. He'll peak over the couch or around corners. He sometimes leans over to see something even if he doesn't need to peek around anything.

Here are some of Beckett's new favorite toys. The top one he loves because he can stand at it (and the music and lights it makes). He likes to push his car back and forth.

Warning lots of videos that I've been collecting over the past month. I like to have a visual for some of his developments that I've been describing.

The top video shows Beckett walking, near the end he takes 4 steps by himself before falling. The one underneath shows him standing by himself for a few seconds. His balance is obviously not always as good. You probably should mute the videos so you don't hear my annoying voice.

This video below shows one of the things Beckett likes doing with Dan- watching him run around. You can also see how Beckett can pull himself up.

We've been trying to get a video of Beckett doing his tongue clicks- but haven't had much success, so this is him doing his spitting that he loves to do.

This video shows Beckett laugh. He's a little bit ticklish if you find the right spot. He still doesn't laugh very much and if he does it's pretty brief.

This is Beckett shaking his head no, my favorite thing that he does. We've been trying to get it on video forever- This is about as good as we'll get. I have to try to hide the camera so he won't be so distracted.

Rants from a sleep-deprived mom

Beckett's sleep was getting worse and worse, so I knew something had to change. He would wake up every 1-3 hours during the night, take 30 minute naps max, take hours to put to sleep (me walking him around), and was starting to refuse to sleep unless in my arms- which he didn't used to do. In the beginning I read many books on sleep training and most discouraged crying it out. They would say it's cruel and your child won't learn to trust you. (Which I think is bull- there are many other opportunities for your child to learn trust). I tried many of the suggested methods to avoid crying it out- but none really worked. From the beginning I would try to put Beckett down drowsy but awake like you're supposed to so they could fall asleep on their own, but that was difficult. I figured most of the time he just cries for hours when I'm trying to help him go to sleep- so what's the point. Then I tried the Ferber method of crying but coming in at increased increments. That I think made Beckett even more mad. So I tried just letting him cry it out. My pediatrician said some sleep expert said that babies won't cry more than 2 hours (I think she was referring to at night so maybe nap time is different?). The first time I tried it Beckett was still screaming two hours later- so I gave up. That night he woke up every hour and one of the times it took 2 1/2 hours to get him to go back to sleep- so I was determined to let him cry all day if that's what it took. Sure it stinks listening to him cry- but I was going to lose it if it didn't get better. So the next day I tried it and he was asleep after crying 3 minutes. The same with the next nap. And he napped over an hour and slept 8 hours during the night after crying only 30 minutes. I knew it was too good to be true, but it gave me hope. After 2 weeks of letting him cry it out- every once in awhile he'll cry an hour or more and sometimes and he doesn't cry at all. Every now and then he'll nap over an hour- but most are still only 30 minutes. During the night he wakes about every 4-5 hours and sometimes longer. So we've still got to work on it- but it's getting much better. He's learned he can sleep on his stomach which helps. I love that I can just put him down and then it's my time while he's putting himself to sleep- way better than what I was doing before. Sorry that was a lot- but moral of it is don't feel bad if you let your child cry it out- some kids need to. I'm sure most moms already know this- especially if you have more than one child.

Firemen story time at the Library. It was cold outside, so no smiles from Beckett.

So Beckett I don't think is ready for solids. I've tried many different foods and all of them he refuses. He'll purse his lips together and just shake his head no- even the rice cereal which he used to let me at least try to put it in his mouth. I'm tired of wasting food so we're giving it a rest. I'm eager to get him on solids but he's not. He'll only eat from me and he's been horrible at that recently. I'm afraid he's not getting enough. He loves sucking on apples that I've been eating but refuses pureed apples. But since he has teeth I'm a little nervous letting him suck on my apple. He loves watching us eat and will grab at our food- but he grabs at anything. He still freaks out anytime he sees our water bottles. So we've been letting him drink from them (we dump the water in his mouth). We've tried the sippy cup and he's not into that yet either. So I got him his own water bottle which he loves. He hasn't quite figured out how to use it on his own- the bottle did say for 3 and up so I know it's a little ahead of him. He loves it nonetheless. I should have photoshoped out that attractive drool. When will the drooling ever end?!

My little brother Adam came for a quick visit this weekend. We went to Rifle Falls- our main attraction. It's been somewhat warm here so the falls were not frozen. Adam also got to attend Rifle First Ward's main event of the year with us- "Wild Game Night". No not game as in Monopoly or Risk, which was my first thought when I heard about it. I cooked up some Texas Brisket Style Elk- not that we did the hunting. Other meats there were deer, bear, pheasant, octopus, fish... Fun times in Rifle We tried spiking Beckett's long hair. I had to take a picture of him playing in his pink chair with his tough boy hairstyle.